I am hurting, I see you have allowed this difficult situation to come upon me. You said in Romans 8:28, And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose. Okay I understand that you have called me and positioned me in this circumstance for your purpose. Although this does not feel good, I also understand your good is present in it. Show me your good, that I may know why you have allowed this hurtful thing to occur. Show me your good that I may be validated in you and thus have healing from this trauma. I do not require validation from man, with your validation, I am whole, I am healed, I have peace, I have what I need. With full knowledge and understanding that you have allowed it for some good reason. Abba show me your good in these difficult situations. In Romans 12:2, you said, Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will. Abba show me your good, that I may be transformed.